Well-intentioned resolutions
Why It’s So Hard to Change Your Habits
Nov 22, 2024 | 9:02 AM
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Making resolutions or building better habits is admirable, but there’s a lot of work that goes with sticking to them.
If you’re finally ready to change some of your less-than-desirable habits keep it mind that it may take more than a few days or a few weeks.
If you don’t want to be among the vast majority of people who let their well-intentioned resolutions fall by the wayside, here’s some insight on why it’s tough to change your habits—and what you can do to make it more likely you’ll be successful.
- Set a goal. Don’t be unrealistic about the habits you want to change or the goal you set. When you set small, attainable goals, you’re more likely to stick with what you have to do to reach those goals. For example, it’s overwhelming to decide you’re going to lose 50 pounds. Instead, focus on losing 5 or 10 pounds. When you achieve that goal, set another.
- Define your goal. It’s difficult to change your habits when your goal is open-ended. Make your goal specific and measurable so you can track your progress and make tweaks as needed. For example, instead of proclaiming you’re going to work out more this year so you can lose weight, plan to walk after dinner 3 times a week for 20 minutes each.
- Plan ahead. Often resolution-makers get caught up in the goal setting but not necessarily the goal planning. If you want to sustain your habit changes, lay out the specifics of how you’re going to achieve your goals. For example, want to eat healthier at work? Plan to shop for groceries, meal-prep and package healthy lunches and snacks on Sunday so they’re ready to grab on your way out the door.
- Reward yourself. Changing habits over the long-term is hard work. As you make changes or meet short-term goals, recognize how far you’ve come and reward yourself for the work you’ve done. For example, after you lose those first 10 pounds, buy yourself a new workout outfit to celebrate the achievement. As an added bonus, it may just inspire you to keep moving forward!
